Tuesday, April 29, 2014

More than a week behind - feeling a bit overwhelmed - but Onward and Upward! Right?

     Catching up all the way from the 21st of April.  Daunting when you think that today is the 29th.  I feel like Madmartigan in Willow...you know...when he was in Tir Asleen and he has just dealt with a troll and now he has to deal with the two headed dragon.  Do you remember his body language?  How he heaved a big sigh and then jumped out onto one of the dragon's heads.  Well, I think I know how he feels.  When you leave a task so long it becomes a double headed dragon and it just has to be dealt with.

     The word for Wednesday 21 April 2014 was OBJECT
To throw against.
1.       To oppose;  to present in opposition.
2.       To present or offer in opposition, as a charge criminal, or as a reason adverse to something supposed to be erroneous or wrong;  with to or against
v.i.
·         To oppose in words or arguments;  to offer reasons against.  The council objected to the admission of the plaintiff’s witnesses.
A.
Opposed;  presented in opposition.

     I am not really sure how to use this word in an Upward way.  As I ponder I am thinking that is was chosen for this program because the creator is going through such a struggle in the court system the last couple of years.  It is afterall her program.
     How can I apply it in my life?  Well, I chose to object to the promptings of the adversary on a daily, sometimes moment by moment, basis.  I have no desire whatsoever to be counted in the least way in his ranks.
     My stand is with Jesus Christ.  I just won't knowingly agree with the adversary.  As the adversary is my, and Jesus Christ's opposition then I stand in a constant state of objection to him.

     The word for Thursday 22 April 2014  was OBJECTIVE
1.       Belonging to the object; contained in the object.
In grammar, the objective case is that which follows a transitive verb or a preposition;  that case in which the object of the verb is placed, when produced or affected by the act expressed by the verb.  

     What?  I am lost here.  I wonder what another dictionary has to say about this word.
adjective
  1. 1.
    (of a person or their judgment) not influenced by personal feelings or opinions in considering and representing facts.
    "historians try to be objective and impartial"



  2. 2.
    GRAMMAR
    of, relating to, or denoting a case of nouns and pronouns used as the object of a transitive verb or a preposition.
noun
  1. 1.
    a thing aimed at or sought; a goal.
    "the system has achieved its objective"
    synonyms:aimintentionpurposetargetgoalintentobjectendMore
  2. 2.
    GRAMMAR
    the objective case.

Okay...here is something that I can identify with.  "A thing aimed at or sought;  a goal."

     I think it is really important to set and achieve goals.  I feel it is imperative to have a plan.  A long term and a daily plan.  Direction is important.  Setting a course to reach a long term goal is not only important but very satisfying and gratifying.
     I am using this program as a part of a plan to reach a specific goal.  I know that personal growth is important.  I believe this program is helping me do something that has always been really hard for me to do.  Looking inward can be pretty painful but as I use this program I am finding that if I take it in small increments it is far less painful than I thought it would be.  And I can make adjustments.  They don't even have to start out as big adjustments.  Small increments made regularly can create huge results...still always moving forward in a positive direction.  Sure, there may be a little discomfort but I am finding that the pain I was worried about has not really presented itself.

     The word for Friday 23 April 2014 was OTHERS
Residue
1.       Not the same;  different;  not this or these.
2.       Not this, but the contrary; as, on this side of the river stands Troy, on the other side stands Albany.
3.       Noting something besides.  To the knowledge of the Latin and Greek, join as much other learning as you can.
4.       Correlative to each, and applicable to any number of individuals.
5.       Opposed to some: as, “some fell among thorns – but others fell into good ground.”  Matt xiii
6.       The next.
The third part.

     The first thing that comes to my mind is -- "Other sheep have I which are not of this fold."  
     There are many peoples out there searching for the Light and the truth.  And there are many out there that have found truth and Light.  I am grateful for all that they share with me in order to help me along my journey.
     It is important for me to remember that I am not the only person who has ever experienced sadness, frustration, pain, weakness, weariness, joy, love, kindness, satisfaction, etc., etc.  There are others.  There are those who I can look to and glean much understanding and knowledge without having to experience it first hand.

    The word for Saturday 24 April 2014 was OUTCOME

This is a great word...especially for right now.  This word helps me to keep going to the end.
From Merrriam-Webster dictionary:
: something that happens as a result of an activity or process.
From Dictionary.com
1.       a final product or end result; consequence; issue.

2.       a conclusion reached through a process of logical thinking.

Noah's 1828 dictionary doesn't have this word.  So I had to look elsewhere.  But I can identify with these definitions.
     Obviously I would like the outcome of this program to be that I am a perfected and purified person ready for translation and entry into the kingdom of God.  Well, that IS what I want ultimately.  The program could help me along the road to that end. 
     I think that because I am trying to reach that goal and using all the tools I can find to help me along the way that this is a worthy goal.  I think that there are some other principles to apply and much work to do but I think I can do it.
     Whatever the outcome, at the end of this challenge I know that I will be a better person for it.  And I am satisfied with that for the moment.

     The word for 25 April 20014 was OCTAGON
     This one really baffles me.  I am not sure how this word will help me.
Eight and Angle
1.       In geometry, a figure of eight sides and eight angles.  When the sides and angles are equal, it is a regular octagon which may be inscribed in a circle.
In fortification, a place with eight bastions.

     I know that I am working on fortifying myself against the adversary but I haven't built a fort, or castle, or walled city...physically.  I am just not sure how this applies to the spiritual growth that I am working for.

     The word for 26 April 2014 was ORGANIZATION
1.       The act or process of forming organs or instruments of action.
2.       The act of forming or arranging the parts of a compound or complex body in a suitable manner for use or service;  the act of distributing into suitable divisions and appointing the proper officers, as an army or a government.
Structure;  form;  suitable disposition of parts which are to act together in a compound body.

     This word resonates with me.  It suggests a couple of different things that matter to me.

  1. The need to look at my resources and organize them in a useful and orderly way.  So that I can reach out and use them...know where they are and what they are good for.
  2. The need to include others in my process.  Sharing one anothers' experiences and skills to achieve goals that are similar.  Like minded people who understand and encourage.
Organizing has never been my strong suit.  But with God nothing is impossible.  I have enlisted His assistance.  I hope I have it in me to follow ALL of His instructions.

     The word for 27 April 2014 was ORDER.
     1.       Regular disposition or methodical arrangement of things;  a word of extensive application;  as the order of troops on parade;  the order of books in a library;  the order of proceedings in a legislative assembly.  Order is the life of business.

2.       Proper state;  as the muskets are all in good order.
3.       Adherence to the point in discussion, according to established rules of debate;  as, the member is not in order, that is he wanders from the question.
4.       Established mode of proceeding.  The motion is not in order.
5.       Regularity;  settled mode of operation.  The fact could not occur in the order of nature;  it is against the natural order of things.
6.       Mandate;  Precept;  command;  authoritative direction.  I have received an order from the commander in chief.  The general gave orders to march.
7.       Rule;  regulation;  as the rules and orders of a legislative house.
8.       Regular government or discipline.  It is necessary for society that good order should be observed.
9.       Rank;  class;  division of men;  as the order of nobles;  the order of priests;  the higher order of society;  men of the lower order;  order of knights;  military orders.
10.   A religious fraternity;  as the order of the Benedictines.
11.   A division of natural objects, generally intermediate between class and genus.  The classes, in the Linnaean artificial system, are divided into orders, which include one or more genera.
12.   Measures;  care.
13.   In rhetoric, the placing of words and members in a sentence in such a manner as to contribute to force and beauty of expression, or to the clear illustration of the subject.
14.   The title of certain ancient books containing the divine office and manner of its performance.
15.   In architecture, a system of several members, ornaments and proportion of columns and pilasters;  or a regular arrangement of the projecting parts of a building, especially of the columns, so as to form on beautiful whole. 
In order, for the purpose;  to the end;  as means to an end.  The best knowledge is that which is of the greatest use in order to our eternal happiness.

ORDER:
1.       To regulate;  to methodize;  to adjust;  to subject to system in management and execution;  as, to order domestic affairs with prudence.
2.       To lead;   to conduct;  to subject to rules or laws.
3.       To direct;  to command. 
4.       To manage; to treat.
5.       To ordain
6.       To direct;  to dispose in any particular manner.


I think that I identify most with the part that says "adjust"...  it suggest putting myself in order.  Rearranging myself to get things right.  

Working on it!!!  Happily, steadily, cheerfully working on it.

     The word for 28 April 2014 was OASIS

     Without even looking at the definition I know that I have an oasis...it is the potters' wheel.  I can go there in the midst of all the turmoil that happens in life and find a place of rest and peace.  I am hoping to make a second oasis in meditation...I fall asleep there though.  I suppose that serves a good purpose too but when I meditate I want to be totally awake and aware even though I am calm and peaceful.
     So the definition is:


From Dictionary.com
1.       a small fertile or green area in a desert region, usually having a spring or well.
2.       something serving as a refuge, relief, or pleasant change from what is usual,
 annoying, difficult, etc.:The library was an oasis of calm in the hectic city.
From  Merriam-Webster Dictionary
1.    an area in a desert where there is water and plants
2.    a pleasant place that is surrounded by something unpleasant
3.    a time or experience that is pleasant and restful

See --?  the second definition there is the one that rings out to me.  I identify with it. Profoundly.

     Today's word is OUTSIDE

1.       The external part of a thing;  the part, end or side which forms the surface or superficies.
2.       Superficial appearance;  exterior; as the outside of a man or of manners.
3.       Person;  external man.
The part or place that lies without or beyond an enclosure.


     This is a sad word to me...well, it has been a sad word to me.  But I am finding that I can make it much happier if I think about it.
     When I was growing up I felt like I was always on the outside of every group.  I was different.  I had different values than most of the people knew.  Being a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (more commonly known as Mormons) I was really different as far as the limited understanding of most people.  I didn't think about going out and drinking or trying to get away with smoking behind the school.  I tried not to use rude language but I didn't master that until I was married, truthfully, I still struggle with that one sometimes.
     Being on the outside of a group can be very lonely.  A person can be there only so long until he or she begins to create his or her own group.  Well, I got married and had a family.  :)  I made a group of my own.  I was really really on the inside of that one.
     As I have aged.  (don't you love that word?) I have found that I can be on the inside of any group...and still stand by my convictions and live my religion.  The secret is kindness, cheerfulness, and service.  Who knew?

Here's to Growing and Glowing!!!
Onward and Upward!!
Tari

Sunday, April 20, 2014

Friday's word - ONENESS; Saturday's word - OPENING; Sunday's word - OPENNESS

ONENESS:
Singleness in number;  individuality;  unity;  the quality of being one.

     This word means a couple of things to me.  Taking the 1828 definition and applying to my life it means:
that I am an individual with some unique and interesting qualities, talents and gifts.  That I am unlike anyone else on the planet and yet I can be in unity of purpose with a group or another individual to help to bring to pass any given goal, event, or purpose.  It also means that I can become in unity with God in bringing to pass HIS purposes and goals.
     I like the thought of that.  I also think that it takes effort and work, conscious thought, and diligence to accomplish it all.  It takes focus and patience, persistence, and lots and lots of love.

OPENING:
1.       A breach; an aperture;  a hole or perforation.
2.       A place admitting entrance;  as a bay or creek.
3.       Dawn;  first appearance or visibleness;  beginning of exhibition or discovery.

Unclosing;  unsealing;  uncovering;  revealing;  interpreting.

     I am going out on a limb here but this feels like a word that means to open the heart and mind to new things.  "A place admitting entrance" - "Beginning of exhibition or discovery."  "Unclosing"  "Unsealing"
     There is a lot of that going on with this challenge.  I think it is going to become even more interesting as time goes by because some of these "O" words are really "out there"...not words that I think much about on a regular basis.  It's kind of crazy but I am enjoying this journey.
     I am learning a lot about myself.
     This word creates a visualization of a slowly opening lotus blossom.  Secrets guarded and protected are being revealed, exposed for what they are, and put away where they belong.  Some are going away...far away...and some are being held closer and cherished, polished and embraced.

OPENNESS:
1.       Freedom from covering or obstruction;  as the openness of a country.
2.       Plainness;  clearness;  freedom from obscurity or ambiguity;  as, deliver your answers with more openness.
3.       Freedom from disguise;  unreservedness;  plainness.
4.       Expression of frankness or candor;  as openness of countenance.
Unusual mildness;  freedom from snow and frost;  as the openness of a winter.

     This word has to apply to myself as I deal with myself.  I am learning to be more open with myself.  I am shedding my disguises and learning to be who I really am.  It is kind of fun to be setting myself free of the person that I think everyone wants me to be and just BE how I feel in my heart.
     I like it.

Here's to Growing and Glowing!!!
Onward and Upward!
Tari

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Today's (Thursday's) word - ONE

One:
1.       Single in number;  individual;  as one man;  one book;  There is one sun only in our system of planets.
2.       Indefinitely, some or any.  You will one day repent of your folly.  But in this phrase, one day is equivalent to some future time.
3.       It follows any.
     When any one heareth the word of the kingdom.  Matt. viii.
4.       Different;  diverse;  opposed to another.   It is one thing to promise, and another to fulfill.
5.       It is used with another, to denote mutuality or reciprocation.  Be kind and assist one another.
6.       It is used with another, to denote average or mean proportion.  The coins one with another, weigh seven penny weight each.
7.       One of two;  opposed to other.   Ask from one side of heaven to the other.  Deut. Iv
8.       Single by union; undivided;  the same.
Single in kind;  the same

     This is a great word to start with.  It reminds me that I am as unique as my name.  At least I don't think there are any other Tari Anne Moore Huffakers out there in the world.
     And I really don't think there is anyone else out there who has experienced the same things in life as I have...including the emotions that go with them.
     I also think about how much power ONE has...one person, one word, one gesture, one song, one breath, one child, one step.
     Be the ONE who makes a difference for someone today.  One smile, one wave, one handshake, one hug, one kind word, one assist...it can change the day for 2 people.  Seriously.

\Here's to Growing and Glowing!!!
Onward and Upward!
Tari

Wednesday's word - Endure

Endure:
v.i. [French endureren and durer, to last, from dur, Latin durus, duro; Spanish endurar.
The primary sense of durus, hard, is set, fixed.  See Durable.
1.       To last;  to continue in the same state without perishing; to remain;  to abide.
2.       To bear;  to brook;  to suffer without resistance, or without yielding.
1.       v.t   To bear;  to sustain;  to support without breaking or yielding to force or pressure.  Metals endure a certain degree of heat without melting.
2.       To bear with patience;  to bear without opposition or sinking under the pressure.
3.       To undergo;  to sustain
To continue in.

     I like this word.  Endure.  To suffer without resistance, or without yielding.
     I chose to endure to the end, with my testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ growing in my heart daily, never yielding to the world's view of right and wrong but always to the Lord's guidelines.
     I am coming to understand what "Divine Nature" means, thanks in part to this challenge.  And I like spending the time each day in a closer more focused communication with my God.
     I hope to not only endure but to endure WELL.
    " To bear with patience;  to bear without opposition or sinking under the pressure."  I went through an ordeal...a lengthy ordeal...that I really tried to bear with patience.  Sadly, I murmured and whined and cried a LOT through it, however, I did hold fast to my convictions and adhered to the council I received through much prayer and fasting, and I think I am a better person for that.  Imagine how wonderful I would be if I had adhered without whining, murmuring, and crying.
     If a lesson really is repeated until learned I sure hope I get it faster the next time.  Whining, crying, and murmuring take a lot of energy that I would rather use somewhere else.

Here's to Growing and Glowing!!!
Onward and Upward!
Tari

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Today's word is Enthrall

I don't think I can do this word.  Here's why...

Enthrall:
To enslave.  See “Inthrall”
To enslave:  to reduce to bondage or servitude;  to shackle.

I can Eliminate the "natural man"  but I struggle with the idea of enslavement.  The very purpose of our existence is based on Agency.  Enslavement eliminates that and I am just not into that...

I am enjoying the freedom this challenge is affording...I am not interested at all in enslavement.  I am no Thrall.  I am bursting those bands that have held me back and moving...

Onward and Upward!!  in order to...
Grow and Glow!!
Tari

Monday, April 14, 2014

Today's (Monday) word...Edify

Edify:
1.       To build, in a literal sense.
2.       To instruct and improve the mind in knowledge generally, and particularly in moral and religious knowledge, in faith and holiness.
To teach or persuade.

     This word is a challenge for me.  I work to become edified.  I get asked to attempt to edify others.  The former is a LOT easier for me than the latter.  However, it is becoming easier.  The thing that makes it easier is the practice (and I am doing a lot of practicing in order to get to perfect...which seems a great distance away at this point) of taking care with my vocabulary.
     Words!!  They make all the difference sometimes.
    It is really important to evaluate what we put into our minds and again what goes out of our mouths.  It is my goal to involve myself with things that are virtuous, lovely and of good report.  I feel that those things will be edifying...not just to myself but to others.
     Edify.  I think this 90 day challenge helps with that.

Here's to Growing and Glowing!!!
Onward and Upward!!
Tari

Saturday's word...Exhibit Sunday's word...Enlarge

Exhibit:
v.t.
1.       To offer or present to view;  to present for inspection;  to show;  as, to exhibit paintings or other specimens of art;  to exhibit papers or documents in court.
2.       To show;  to display;  to manifest publicly;  s, to exhibit a noble example of bravery or generosity.
              To present;  to offer publicly or officially;  as, to exhibit a charge of high treason.

     Okay...
     When I look at this word I think of the zoo, museums, aquariums...places where things are on display.  Places where the public goes to watch creatures of all sorts behave as naturally as the environment will allow.
     "Where the public goes to watch..."  That is what I think of when I see this word in connection with the goal of this challenge.
     My behavior is ALWAYS on display...so now I get to think about what behavior I exhibit on a moment by moment  basis...let alone a day to day basis.
     I think I should be hiding in shame.  Oh, I have my moments where I can consider myself a bit more than a tarnished example of good behavior.  I like to think that I am kind, caring, relatively articulate when the situation calls for it...but I can say that in general I would NOT like to be caught on surveillance video where I would have to watch MYSELF.
     SO, I am to a point where I want to be much more careful with my actions, tone of voice, body language, the whole 9 yards.
     I don't think "acting" is the right word for the awareness.  I think it more like choosing more carefully before I act or speak.
     You see, my goal is to be an effective advocate for Christ.  I want to do things His way.  My way is mostly flawed.  I would exhibit much better behavior.
     So, thanks for this word in this challenge.  It begins!!

Sunday's word...

Enlarge:
1.       To make greater in quantity or dimensions;  to extend in limits breadth or size;  to expand in bulk.  Every man desires to enlarge his possessions; the prince, his dominions;  and the landlord , his farm.  The body is enlarged by nutition, and a good man rejoices to enlarge the sphere of his  benevolence.
2.       To dilate; to expand; as with joy or love.
3.       To expand; to make more comprehensive.  Science enlarges the mind.
4.       To increase in appearance; to magnify to the eye; as by a glass.
5.       To set at liberty;  to release from confinement or pressure.
6.       To extend in a discourse; to diffuse in eloquence.
7.       To augment; to increase; to make large or larger, in a general sense; a word of general application.
To enlarge the heart, may signify to open and expand in good will; to  make free, liberal and charitable.
v.i.
1.       To grow large or larger; to expand; to dilate; to expand.  A plant enlarges by growth; an estate enlarges by good management; a volume of air enlarges by rarefaction.
2.       To be diffuse in speaking or writing; to expatiate.  I might enlarge on this topic.
To exaggerate.

This word makes me laugh for a minute because I am so desiring to diminish my appearance...you know lose weight...about 90 pounds of it!  So enlarging is, like, the LAST thing on my mind...
     However, there are areas of my life that can use enlarging.  Understanding being the first and foremost.   Skills would be another.
     I spend a LOT of time in books and listening to cds and videos on improving myself, my understanding on a subject; my skills in pottery, teaching, being a homemaker, a becoming a better wife, etc.
     So, now that I am done laughing, I am ready to continue enlarging the stuff that really matters to me.

Here's to Growing (on the inside) and Glowing!!!
Onward and Upward!
Tari

Saturday, April 12, 2014

Friday's word...Elevate

Elevate:
1.       To raise, in a literal and general sense;  to raise from a low or deep place to a higher.
2.       To exalt; to raise to a higher state or station; as, to elevate a man to an office.
3.       To improve, refine or dignify; to raise from or above low conceptions;  as, to elevate the mind.
4.       To raise from a low or common state;  to exalt; as, to elevate the character;  to elevate the nation.
5.       To elate with pride.
6.       To excite;  to cheer;  to animate;  as , to elevate the spirits.
7.       To take from; to detract; to lessen by detraction. (not used)
8.       To raise from any tone to one more acute;  as, to elevate the voice.
9.       To augment or swell;  to make louder, as sound.
a.
Elevated; raised aloft.

     Ah...this word is so wonderful.  I am so grateful for all of the definitions and how important each aspect of the word is in getting through this life.
     I accepted this 90 challenge for the express purpose of elevating myself from one level of existence to a better one.  I hope that I keep steady in this pursuit because any...ANY...degree of improvement is a victory.
     I have so many areas of my life to improve.  Relationships are key to me right now.
     It is very important to me that I become FRIENDS with Jesus Christ.  And it is important to me that I become a better friend with my husband.
     My husband is a very wonderful man.  He is also on this CEO journey.  He really has a handle on certain aspects of the program...aspects that I just struggle with.  It amazes me how he has grabbed on to them and made them a part of him.  It elevates his soul and he glows.  He smiles so much more often.  It is truly remarkable.
     Isn't it interesting how we all have different areas of interest and different gifts to help us get where we are going?  I love it.

Here's to Growing and Glowing!!!
Onward and Upward!
Tari

Thursday's word...Exchange

Exchange:
v.t.
1.       In commerce, to give one thing or commodity for another;  to alienate or transfer the property of a thing and receive in compensation for it something of supposed equal value;  to barter; and in vulgar language, to swap;  to truck.  It differs from sell, only in the kind of compensation.  To sell is to alienate for money;  to exchange is to alienate one commodity for another;  as, to exchange horses; to exchange oxen for corn.
2.       To lay aside, quit or resign one thing, state or condition, and take another in the place of it;  as, to exchange a crown for a cowl;  to exchange a throne for a cell or a hermitage; to exchange a life of ease for a life of toil.
3.       To give and receive reciprocally;  to give and receive in compensation the same thing.
4.       To give and receive the like thing;  as, to exchange thoughts;  to exchange work;  to exchange blows;  to exchange prisoners.
It has with before the person receiving the thing given, and for before the equivalent.  Will you exchange horses with me?  Will you exchange your horse for mine?
n.
1.       To commerce, the act of giving one thing or commodity for another;  barter;  traffic by permutation, in which the thing received is supposed to be equivalent to the thing given.
2.       The act of giving up or resigning one thing or state for another, without contract.
3.       The act of giving and receiving reciprocally’ as an exchange of thoughts; an exchange of civilities.
4.       The contract by which one commodity is transferred to another for  an equivalent commodity.
5.       The thing given in return for something received; or the thing received in return for what is given.
6.       The form of exchanging one debt or credit for another;  or the receiving or paying of money in one place, for an equal sum in another, by order, draft or bill of exchange….   Bills of exchange, drawn on persons in a foreign country, are called foreign bills of exchange; the like bills, drawn on persons in different parts or cities of the same country, are called inland bills of exchange.     A bill of exchange is a mercantile contract in which four persons are primarily concerned.
7.       In mercantile language, a bill drawn for money is called exchange, instead of a bill of exchange.
8.       The course of exchange, is the current price between two places, which is above or below par, or at par.  Exchange is at par, when a bill in New York for the payment of one hundred pounds sterling in London, can be purchased for one hundred pounds.  If it can be purchased for less, exchange is under par.  If the purchaser is obliged to give more, exchange is above par.
9.       In law, a mutual grant of equal interests, the one in consideration of the other. Estates exchanged must be equal  in quantity, as fee simple for fee simple.

10.   The place where the merchants, brokers, and bankers of a city meet to transact business, at certain hours; often contracted into change.

     Well, THIS word means a LOT to me.  It is the perfect word for understanding repentance.
     I know that repentance is exchanging one way of doing things for a better way of doing things...purging even the desire to do things the old way and replacing it, or exchanging it, for a better and more appropriate desire and way.
     On another level...don't you just love exchanging heartfelt compliments?  I love the energy that happens there.  The way both parties' hearts swell with warm and good feelings...then there is a little discomfort because you don't quit feel worthy of the compliment but want to BE worthy of the compliment...then this little desire grows in there to really BECOME worth of the compliment.  Then more compliments are exchanged and people are lifted up a little more.  And soon everyone involved is so much happier and feeling pretty grateful.
     I love those times...seeing someone walk away from me with a lighter step and a little smile on his or her face...with a little more confidence.  It is very wonderful.
     Exchange...I want my exchanges to be complimentary...true compliments...for those around me.  There is so much good in life, and so much good in each person who comes into my life.  I like looking for it, finding it, and saying something nice about it...in exchange for the feeling of warmth in my heart, and the gratitude.

Here's to Growing and Glowing!!!
Onward and Upward!
Tari